I want a casual hookup not a relationship – how do I say that on Tinder?

Swipe Right is our advice column that tackles the tricky world of online dating. This week: how to find a semi-regular hookup — and avoid scary messages. I am 37, a single mom and am looking to find someonebut not a boyfriend. After years of slowly losing my mojo and sexual confidence, I am slowly rediscovering my drives and desires and now want to find someone to explore that with. I am looking for a semi-regular hookup with someone I can get to know over time and explore my sexuality, but I am not ready to actually meet someone for the longer term. How on earth do I ask for this on an app like Tinder without getting scary messages? Good for you. This is a great start!

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Appetite a threesome? But for many, this alluring fantasy is nothing more than that—a fantasy. Only around 18 percent of men have actually had a threesome, according to the Sexual Adventure in America Study. If you after that your partner want to bring a third into the bedroombut haven't done it yet, perhaps an app could help remedy the situation. Conversely, these apps can also help single guys find a couple to play along with. Swiping your way to a threesome might sound a little daunting.