What to do when someone says they want sex without commitment
You watch as the man you love turns his head quickly, looks her up and down, and his eyes linger just a little too long on her breasts, or her backside. I love and adore her. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. The world is full of beautiful sights — flowers and sunsets, great works of art — none more beautiful than the female body. Noticing another woman is really nothing more than that: acknowledging and appreciating beauty when we see it. Men can be head-over-heels in lovecompletely devoted to one woman, and still be attracted to other women.
It's not always easy to tell the difference between a guy who's wants a relationship with you and individual who's wrapped up in the flash. The reason? Lust is a able thing, and some men will accomplish just about anything in the accommodating spot between nice to meet you and sex. They may get carried away and act like you're the be-all and end-all, only to be beaten interest or show their true colors as soon as you sleep all together. If you're just looking for femininity, then carry on, but if not, how can you tell if a guy is really right for the long-term? Lauren Frances is one of my favorite relationship experts, and she happens to focus on these actual struggles in her books and one-on-one coaching.