Sexy texts can spice up your relationship

Nudes are old fashioned; everyone can send nudes- but be careful. There is something more intriguing and sexier in someone that can turn you on by using dirty talks. I would say that sexting is an art form. And it is not that easy. Send nudes, but be careful You need to get the right combination of dirty and witty, the pacing has to be right and only when everything is in place can you add a sexy selfie. But again, be aware that someone can hack your partner phone or your partner can just be a dickhead and share these pics around. Remember the iCloud celebrity scandal? Many blamed the victims without realising that naked pics have been around a long time. It is all about being smart.

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