I want a casual hookup not a relationship – how do I say that on Tinder?

Swipe Right is our advice column that tackles the tricky world of online dating. This week: how to find a semi-regular hookup — and avoid scary messages. I am 37, a single mom and am looking to find someonebut not a boyfriend. After years of slowly losing my mojo and sexual confidence, I am slowly rediscovering my drives and desires and now want to find someone to explore that with. I am looking for a semi-regular hookup with someone I can get to know over time and explore my sexuality, but I am not ready to actually meet someone for the longer term. How on earth do I ask for this on an app like Tinder without getting scary messages?

Actually good sex is hard to appear by, as are actually good, beneficial relationships. We're big fans of having one without the other, as elongate as everyone involved is happy after that safe and having a giant bite of fun. I cannot stand when people assume the only environment in which you can have good sex is all the rage a relationship. The best casual femininity I ever had was with a guy I was relatively friendly along with but not that close. We barely slept together once, but literally at the same time as much as we could in 24 hours. It's a shame straight is the default, and my realisation came loads later and I missed absent on lots of potential sexy age. I ended up in loads of those and realised they made me really sad and act in absolutely a wild way. So I assume I've got into hooking up as it's so much less complicated.

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